Wednesday, December 14, 2011
"Baby Brother's" 4 Months Old!
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
The SC State Fair
Monday, October 10, 2011
This is how a professional does it.
Izzie's 2nd Birthday
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Outside Mommy! Shoes on!
Outside Mommy! Shoes on!
Monday, October 3, 2011
Our Big Boy
We tried tap dancing...
Izzie loves dancing all the time. She dances in her room, in the car, in the bed, in the bath.. everywhere. Todd and I like to say "Go Izzie, Go Izzie!" Cheering her on. We love it and can't get enough of her jumping, shoulder shimmy, hands in the air, and of course her hiney shake.
I decided, well she needs to get out of the house. Why not try dance? Most classes don't start until 3 years old, but there are a few that start at 2. I talked to Amanda Gunter and we both wanted our girls (who are just one month apart in age) to try together. We found a reasonable class. I called. They sounded great and informative. We bought the leotards, stockings, and tap shoes. I got to the class first. It hadn't started yet, so they had a little waiting area. When it was time two ladies walked out and called for the girls to come. I'm not used to just letting Izzie walk off with some stranger, so I held her hand and walked down the hallway with them. Talked to the teacher for a split second. She took Izzie in the room and closed the door. Now, Izzie went willingly to my surprise. She didn't hesitate at all. I hesitated. This class had no two way mirror or window to peak in. I had no clue what happened. When the class was done, the teacher came up to me and again talked for a split second saying "She started crying at the end" and just walked away from me. My daughter was no where in my sight. I found her in the back of a pack of toddlers with red eyes. No teacher holding her hand or comforting her. Needless to say, I was PO'd. We decided that this place was obviously not appropriate for my baby.
Later in the week, Amanda and I found a second place. We took the girls. The teacher was friendly. There was a window to peak in, but of course Izzie was hesitant now. It's like the poor girl was traumatized from the first class.
So, maybe next year, but for now she has a pair of tap shoes and a few dance leotards to play in :)
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Garrett is 2 Months Old!
Thursday, September 1, 2011
Todd is 30!
The Beach!
Monday, August 1, 2011
The Big Sister
Garrett's 2nd Week and a Special Visit!
Friday, July 22, 2011
Garrett Jaco Kirkland's Birth Story
The day Izzie was born, I quickly typed out what the day was like. I did this so I would never forget it. This is a once in a lifetime event, because no two births are alike. I'm typing Garrett's out obviously a little bit later (a week and a half), but for the same reason. When I'm in my fifties and being pregnant or giving birth really is a distant memory, I want to be able to pull these stories out. So, here goes Garrett's birth story. It is at least my recollection of what happened that day.
We had an appointment Thursday before Garrett was born with my wonderful OB, Dr. Jones. Garrett's due date was July 18th. We had a growth scan done around 36 weeks, because I told Dr. Jones that I felt he was "BIG." The growth scan indeed basically said that. Of course, they aren't exactly that accurate. He was weighing in at 6lbs. 14oz. (give or take half a pound). Dr. Jones agreed, but said that I just grow them big! So, by my 38.5 week appointment I was pretty miserable feeling so huge. I was already progressing. I believe I was 2-3cm and 80% with Garrett lying pretty low. When Dr. Jones entered the room, I pretty much begged and pleaded for her to help me out. She checked me out and got me to 4cm easily. Dr. Jones asked me about induction, letting me know it was her day at the hospital Monday, July 11th. From the very beginning of this pregnancy, I told myself I was going to let him come when he wanted to come. However, around my 36th week I was pretty miserable. I had horrible back pain and what I thought were contractions. I had almost went to the hospital a few days before this appointment, because I thought it was time. The pain was serious, but eventually died off. Dr. Jones gave Todd and I a few minutes to talk about it in the office. Todd was all for it. He has always hated the idea of having to rush off in the middle of the night to the hospital or even worse delivering his own baby on our bathroom floor! I was a little hesitant. I also had that fear of not knowing when labor was really going to begin, not getting my epidural, and being in extreme pain. We eventually agreed we would induce on Monday if we lasted over the weekend. Dr. Jones appeared happy with our decision. I was also excited that she would be delivering Garrett, too.
We left the office and went to eat dinner with my parents, who had just returned from Tennessee. Everyone was excited that Garrett would be making an appearance in just a few days. Todd and I also went to buy Izzie's present from Garrett. We bought a little play diaper bag, baby doll, and a few books about being a big sister. She is obsessed with all things baby.
We continued on with our weekend. I had a few signs and symptoms that made me feel like I was close to going into labor, but nothing was ever consistent. I even worked Saturday night at the hospital. It was a big joke that I was going to end up delivering on my floor. One of my coworkers even snapped a final photo of my pregnant belly. Oh my gosh! My pregnant belly was so big. No wonder people asked if I was having twins. I really do think it is true that when you are carrying a boy, you are less round and more all belly. It's crazy.
Sunday, I slept a little bit. Then, I went with my mom to go get my nails done. The lady doing my toes looked at me and asked if I was in pain. I now look back and laugh, because I understand after my last belly picture what she was talking about. Getting your nails done is a must when going to give birth. There's not much "pretty" about birth, so I try to control what I can haha. After that, Todd and I went to go see Transformers. Obviously, that movie was his pick. He wanted to go on one last date with me. We came home and went to bed as a family of three. I actually did not go to bed until after midnight. I was still preparing all of our bags which included Izzie's for the hospital as well.
I woke up at 6am on Monday morning. Took my shower and got dressed quietly in order to keep Izzie asleep. Todd, of course, did not get up till close to 7! We had to be at the hospital at 7:30am. He almost made us late. Mimi, my mom, came to our house and watched Izzie until it was a little closer to get things going at the hospital. I told everyone not to come right away and wait a couple hours.
Todd and I got to labor and delivery on time. We met our nurse for the day, Linda, when we got to our labor and delivery room. She told me to go do all the things that I remembered from Izzie's birth. I had to go get undressed, put on the hospital gown, give them a specimen. By the way, giving a specimen is so hard for a 39week pregnant woman!!! I came out, sat on the bed, and got hooked up to the monitors. Linda asked us a whole bunch of questions, told us some of the rules, and started my IV. She started my pitocin, antibiotic, and IV fluids. I started having little contractions that really didn't bother me too much. Dr. Jones came in and we all knew the excitement was about to start. She checked me. I was still 4cm and 80%. She was surprised I made it through the weekend and so was I. We decided together that she would go ahead and break my water. The water was clear which is always a good sign. I forget how funny it feels. It doesn't hurt, but the warm gush is definitely interesting! We were all talking about my first delivery with Izzie. Dr. Jones said I would not make it till 3:24pm this time. She expected I would have Garrett before that. I was scared that I would miss my chance for the epidural, so she thought it would be a great idea to go ahead and get it. I agreed! It probably only took about ten minutes and I was really starting to feel my contractions. I remember the first one I couldn't talk through, was when my in-laws were in the room. I felt so bad. I just stopped talking mid sentence. They promptly left the room when they realized what was going on. I think I scared them as I was gripping the side of the bed. I was happy that they had went ahead and called the anesthesiologist. If I had waited, I might have died from that pain. Ok, I really would not have died, but I certainly felt like it at that moment. The anesthesiologist came in, Todd left the room due to hospital policy, and I got my epidural. It took a little longer to kick in than I remembered. I was worried it was not working. Finally, after about 30 minutes my pain was gone. That was the longest 30 minutes ever. The nurse checked me before my epidural. I was already a 5. I knew I was going to go quick once the epidural was in, because that is how it was with Izzie. It's like my body completely relaxes and does what it needs to do. By 12:30, I started having some pretty decent pressure. They called Dr. Jones. I was completely dilated. We had talked at the beginning of the morning about laboring down. I wanted a lot of time to labor down. I had pushed an hour with Izzie and did NOT want to do that again. Dr. Jones agreed that she would come back at 1:30 and it would probably be time to start pushing by then. Well, around 1pm or a little after I started having serious pains again. The nurse took a look and said it was time. My mom, Tori, and Todd took positions. This was Tori's first time experiencing a birth. The nurse told me to push once and immediately told me to stop. Dr. Jones came in and got ready. I pushed probably 3 times and Garrett was here at 1:36pm! He actually came out head and hand first. I was a little worried about that, but his arm is fine. Dr. Jones put him on my chest. Everyone immediately started commenting on how big he was. I was just enjoying my slimy, warm little baby. I know that's weird, right? But, I love that slimy, warm, fresh out of the oven baby. It's so wonderful. There is nothing in the world like it. They wrapped a blanket around him. Todd got to cut the cord. They then took him and weighed him. He was a whopping 9lbs and 8oz!!! Can I please tell you all that I am so relieved we did not wait any longer for him! I might have had a 10lb baby! He was perfect, definitely looked like a little man. He was a little, what I call, gurgly. I tried to feed him and it just didn't seem right. They took him to the nursery after everyone came in to see him. I was happy they did just to make sure everything was alright. Dr. Jones said he just didn't have enough time in the birth canal.
We spent 2 days in the hospital. We got to leave on Wednesday around noon. Izzie has been great with her little brother. She has been a little clingy with me. She doesn't like being away from us for too long. She even refused to sleep over at Mimi's house one night this week which is crazy for her. She is obsessed with her Mimi and Nina. She gives her brother lots of kisses and hugs. It scares me at times, but I try not to overreact when she touches him. I don't want to make her upset or make her think we don't want her to love on him. She has been a great big sister. I am so happy that she loves him.
Monday, June 20, 2011
A Big Sister's Love

She loves him so much already! I can already tell that she is going to be little mommy to baby Garrett when he arrives. She hugs, kisses, and tells him "Hi!" as she waves her hand at my belly daily. It is the sweetest thing. Of course, I really don't think she understands or maybe she really does think my belly is a baby? Either way, soon enough she will figure it out.
We went out to eat the other day and she saw a baby at the table next to us. The baby was getting a little fussy. She looked up at me and said "Baby's crying!" Her little face shriveled up and squinted in the baby's direction. She was so concerned. She would not stop staring and pointing. Secretly, I loved it! I can already tell how she is going to take to her little brother and it makes my heart melt.
Thursday, May 19, 2011
Baby Boy, His Name, and His Room!
Well, We have a name people! Garrett Jaco Kirkland will be arriving sometime in July (as long as he stays put). We had plans to call him Rhett, but we aren't completely sure yet. We picked Garrett, because well we just liked it. It sounded a little southern (esp. when you add the Rhett in there) and a little sporty. Not too manly and not too baby. Jaco is his Nana's maiden name. It's a name Todd has always wanted to use. I gave the option for a junior, but Todd has never really liked that idea. Anyways, that's basically how he got his name. I am so happy that we have finally decided and we are sticking to it!
Happy Easter?
Saturday, April 16, 2011
Izzie is 18 Months Old!
Saturday, March 12, 2011
What are they made of?
This is a problem. Don't get me wrong we love our affectionately called, "baby boy," very much. We couldn't be more blessed as a family to be having him. However, having a boy is hard work. Little girls are so easy. Everything about planning for them is pretty and colorful. Little boys on the other hand well ... aren't as pretty. Of course, things can be cute. You really should not be saying the word "cute" around his daddy though.
We don't have a name, don't have a crib, don't have bedding, don't have a carseat, don't have a plan. We have managed to find a few pieces of clothing and that is about it. Picking and agreeing on a name has been hard. We will find one and then there is just something wrong with it. It's too manly, too cute, too squishy. Let's face it, how great are names like Gary, Hank, and Bob? No, not so great for a baby. Every little boy's room I see is cars, boats, or sports. Nothing is wrong with those things. They just aren't as sweet or appealing to me.
Oh! Izzie. What are we going to do with all these boys? I guess we will just love them even more.
Saturday, January 22, 2011
The Gummi Bear is a ....... !
We went to see Todd's Aunt Kim on Wednesday in hopes of just seeing our baby wiggle around a little bit and maybe getting a peak at the gender. I thought I was only 14weeks and 3days. We got there and brought them some Krispee Kreme doughnuts as a thank-you. Izzie got to run around and meet some new friends at the office. A bunch of them had remembered seeing her in my tummy when we went for ultrasounds with her. We found out Izzie was a girl at about 15 weeks at Aunt Kim's, too.
After waiting a few minutes, we got to go back and I told them how far along I thought I was. Cissy, the ultrasound lady, told us that she wouldn't really be able to tell until 16 weeks. We were okay with that. We were happy just to see the gummi bear wiggle around. I layed down on the table and she put the little wand on my belly with the gooey warm gel. Immediately, we saw the baby wiggling around. It's so neat seeing them move in there. After about a minute, she moved the wand and without even having to look around we saw it! She said "It's a BOY!" I kept saying "are you sure?" over and over and over again. I saw it, too! It definitely looked a lot different than the way Izzie did. It was not a hamburger (as Cissy says). It was definitely a hotdog. Haha. She kept reassuring me. He was also measuring big at 15weeks and 2days.
We are so happy! Not many families get blessed with a daughter and a son. We get to experience that. We would have been perfectly happy with a girl, too. I grew up with 3 sisters and loved it. However, I was really hoping, secretly, that Todd would get to have a son.
After all the excitement, we decided to have some fun. None of our family knew that we were going to have an ultrasound that day. They were all at work, school, or busy running errands. We went to Publix to find some blue cupcakes and white boxes to put them in. We went to Todd's parents shop first. They did not have a clue. I videotaped all the family members finding out with my phone, so they wouldn't think something was going on. I uploaded one of the videos above :). I'm still in process of getting the others on here.
The whole day was filled with excitement. Here is who we visited and where:
- Todd's parents at their shop, The Custom Framer.
- My sister, Brooke, working at Hand Picked.
- My dad, who we found in the Lowe's parking lot.
- My sister, Tori, who we met at her house.
- My mom, who was working at the hospital. Her scream was priceless. I think she scared all of her coworkers.
-My sister, Hannah, who we met coming home from school.
Well, we don't have a name yet. We have a few ideas, but boy names are so hard to work with!!! Stay tuned for more updates.

